How to Gain the Upper Hand in Real Estate Negotiations Without Being Mean or Rude

How to Gain the Upper Hand in Real Estate Negotiations Without Being Mean or Rude In a typical real estate transaction, numerous factors may be negotiated, and the terms of the purchase may be negotiated at different times throughout the process. For example, the contract may be negotiated at the time the original offer is made, but revisions to the contract may be negotiated after the property inspection has been completed. Both parties want to have the upper hand in negotiations, but those who focus on a few points are more likely to walk away feeling satisfied with the results of the negotiations.

Research All Factors Related To The Negotiation

A successful negotiation may be about achieving specific, desired goals, but in most cases, there will be a bit of give and take on both parties’ parts in order to find success. Those who have the upper hand in real estate negotiations will take time to research all factors related to the negotiations, and this includes everything from market conditions and how long the property has been on the market to how competitively priced the real estate is, how many other buyers there are and more.

Understand All Motives And Influences

Beyond outside factors related to the negotiation, there typically are personal motives and influences that must be considered. For example, a seller may be motivated to sell quickly due to a job offer in another city, or a buyer may be motivated because the property is the only one of its kind close to a great school. An experienced real estate agent can often gather and provide insight to their clients about the motives and influences of the other party that may impact the negotiations without revealing your personal motivations and therefore losing the upper hand in negotiations.

Consider Alternative Creative Solutions

After all external and personal factors have been researched and itemized, it may appear that one party has a clear upper hand in negotiations and the other party does not. However, in order to be successful in negotiations, typically both parties will need to feel as though they are getting what they want. After all parties’ motivations have been identified, it may be possible to think of creative, outside-the-box alternatives that may be agreeable to both parties.

When a buyer or a seller is preparing to negotiate with the other party, it is important that they fully understand all of the factors that may be at play in determining the outcome of negotiations. When buyers and sellers focus on these points before making an offer or counteroffer, they may find their negotiation efforts more successful.  For more information about how my extensive negotiation experience can benefit you, please give me a call – J.P. Cook – 602-320-4253.

20226 N 101st Way Scottsdale, AZ 85255

$5,000,000 - 5Br/6Ba -  for Sale in Silverleaf, Scottsdale
Open House
$5,000,000
5 Beds
5.5 Baths
4,746 SqFt
Status Active
MLS # 6737164
Property Type Single Family Residence
Price Type --
This 4,746sf home features 5 bedrooms, 5.5 bathrooms and exudes a cool, modern beach vibe. Highlights include vaulted beamed ceilings in the great room and principal bedroom, light hardwood floors, and abundant windows. The kitchen is equipped with both marble and leathered granite countertops, white cabinets, 2 dishwashers and a European cooktop. Designed for seamless indoor/outdoor living, the home offers pocket doors opening to a front courtyard with a spool, fireplace, synthetic grass, and soothing park views. Additional features include an interior courtyard with a 2nd outdoor fireplace, BBQ, and pizza oven. The upstairs bonus room adds versatility to this meticulously crafted residence. Every detail, from plantation shutters to updated mechanicals, reflects exceptional ... attention to detail. Price includes furniture and furnishings with a small exclusion list.

4568 S Banning Drive Gilbert, AZ 85297

$4,999,888
7 Beds
6.5 Baths
10,572 SqFt
Status Active
MLS # 6702319
Property Type Single Family Residence
Price Type --
SELLER FINANCING AVAILABLE! Award winning builder, Luxury Living Homes presents this incredible 10,572 Sq Ft single level estate with 2 Guest Houses in the prestigious gated community, Weston Ranch! Winning multiple awards, this property is the home builder's personal residence and showcase home with architecture inspired by Frank Lloyd Wright. This 7 bedroom, 6.5 bathroom luxury estate offers an NBA indoor basketball court, 6 car garage, detached guest house and exquisite custom finishes throughout. The custom ceiling details, over 23 imported slabs/inlay marbles/tile work, incredible kid bedrooms with play areas that inspire young minds creativity, amazing outdoor spaces including pickle ball court/sport court, and multiple engineered pools within one large pool

12140 N 106th Street Scottsdale, AZ 85259

$4,997,000
7 Beds
6.5 Baths
6,063 SqFt
Status Active
MLS # 6596266
Property Type Single Family Residence
Price Type --
NEW CONSTRUCTION - permits ready and we are set to break ground on this exceptionally designed Modern Luxury Estate brought to you by Blue Sky Homes. Boasting roughly 5226 SF this home is an entertainer's dream, with open kitchen, large sliding door system to the backyard and a split bedroom floor plan and with 10'+ ceilings. Guest will feel welcomed in the spacious 800+ SF casita overlooking resort style backyard. This amazing home is located in the popular Cactus/Shea corridor close to shopping, dining, as well as hiking trails. Don't miss out on the opportunity to semi customize this desert gem before it's too late. *Pictures used to reflect floor pan, not actual property. This property is located on Lot B of the site.

10040 E Happy Valley Road Unit 504 Scottsdale, AZ 85255

$4,995,900
4 Beds
4.5 Baths
5,986 SqFt
Status Active
MLS # 6787820
Property Type Single Family Residence
Price Type --
Immediate Gold club membership upon close of escrow. This artfully designed, Santa Fe inspired home offers rich & elegant detail in its graceful architectural style. Generous open living spaces and numerous fireplaces encourage comfortable gatherings. All on one level except for an upper level two room Casita with view deck. Luxurious finishes and features include Venetian plaster, wood beam ceilings, chef's kitchen with Wolf appliances and large center island, all bedroom en-suites, combination theater and exercise room with a large bar for entertaining, 4 car garage, BBQ and spa. Desert Highlands amenities include Jack Nicklaus signature golf course, 13 tennis courts (4 grass), pickle ball courts, bocce ball courts, fitness center, fine & casual dining, guard gated & security patrolled.

36421 N 105th Place Scottsdale, AZ 85262

$4,995,000
4 Beds
4.5 Baths
5,208 SqFt
Status Active
MLS # 6620771
Property Type Single Family Residence
Price Type --
Framing is done, home completion Spring 2025! Right sized at 5208 feet, three bedrooms plus guest house and lots of covered outdoor patio area for modern desert living at Mirabel. Great room with soaring 16´ceilings, looking through retractable glass wall to pool/spa and a view of Pinnacle Peak. South facing rear yard is perfect exposure for AZ living. Double oversized 2-car garages fit four luxury vehicles (or your expensive toys on lifts!) comfortably. Light and bright throughout, Wolf/Subzero gourmet kitchen, full wet bar with pocketing windows out to patio, his and hers water closets in owner's suite. Flex room for gym, second office, workspace, or storage. Two secondary ensuite bedrooms and den. Free-standing guest house makes having guests more fun! CW's Touchpoint Home Management program will help you take care of your home; you've worked hard enough already! Complete specifications available, hurry while there's still time to customize and make it yours! Images are intended to convey overall design direction for this home but final specifications are subject to change. Contact Calvis Wyant Luxury Homes for up to date details. Please call Listing Agents to show, thank you!

10207 E Diamond Rim Drive Unit 2121 Scottsdale, AZ 85255

$4,995,000
5 Beds
5 Baths
5,660 SqFt
Status Active
MLS # 6753179
Property Type Single Family Residence
Price Type --
Situated on a rare 1/2 acre corner lot, you'll enjoy privacy, and plenty of lush, mature landscaping, and the ease of hopping in a golf cart to get to Silverleaf Country Club. A private courtyard entrance will lead you to the entry as you meander through the meticulously maintained rose gardens, a bubbling fountain and large blue tiled swimming pool, and spa. The open great room has a grand feel as it's accented with a Cantera stone arch, soaring ceilings with hand-hewn beams, and telescoping doors that open up to the covered patio, and additional center courtyard with charming stone fireplace to add to the ambiance while entertaining. No additional expenses needed on this home, as the owner has recently completed a renovation to include, new lighting throughout, fully remodeled bathrooms with designer tiles, and plumbing fixtures. The kitchen is a dream to cook in as it has a large center island adorned with South American Quartzite and Cristallo translucent Quartzite, Wolf 6 burner gas range with griddle, Wolf double ovens, coffee bar, and 3 tall sub-zero wine refrigerators. Exterior was renovated with new landscaping, new landscape lighting, and Rhinosheild paint. The main house features three spacious guest bedrooms with en-suite bathrooms that any guest will enjoy. An elevator leads to the primary suite with a large sitting room, spacious his/hers custom closets, and luxurious bathroom with dual vanities, make- up vanity soaking tub, and over-sized shower. The office has lovely built-ins and french doors that lead to a secret garden with a stone fireplace. Retreat to the detached, 462 sq ft Casita, to enjoy an afternoon of sewing, gaming, or fitness. The Crestron system is the brains of the home, and has been fully updated in 2023, along with 7 new HVAC units for the home. This home also features a 3 car garage and plenty of storage space.

5113 W Arrowhead Lakes Drive Glendale, AZ 85308

$4,995,000
6 Beds
5.5 Baths
6,500 SqFt
Status Active
MLS # 6783773
Property Type Single Family Residence
Price Type --
Welcome to Arrowhead Manor Estates, where luxury meets tranquility in the NW Valley's most exclusive hillside community. This expansive 6,500 sqft masterpiece offers 6 bedrooms, 5.5 baths, and is situated on a sprawling 2-ACRE, mostly flat, mountainside lot with panoramic city and mountain views that create a breathtaking backdrop from sunrise to sunset. Designed with entertaining in mind, the outdoor spaces are unrivaled. Enjoy Arizona's sunny climate on the full-size sport court for, pickleball, tennis or hoops! Take a dip in the infinity-edge pool overlooking the Valley, or unwind by the firepit under the stars. A fully equipped outdoor kitchen and multiple lounging areas make this home a true oasis for gatherings both intimate and grand. Step inside to discover soaring beamed ceilings a warm and inviting living space, and a gourmet kitchen equipped with high-end appliances and ample counter space. The home theater promises memorable movie nights, while the detached casita offers privacy and comfort for guests or multi-generational living. This estate is also powered by a fully owned solar system, blending eco-conscious efficiency with luxury living. Nestled within a private, gated community of multi-million-dollar estates, this property offers a rare opportunity to experience exclusive, serene living without sacrificing convenience. Originally, these were two separate acre lots and they can be subdivided again to build a second home!

7022 E Paradise Drive Scottsdale, AZ 85254

$4,995,000
5 Beds
5.5 Baths
5,200 SqFt
Status Active
MLS # 6764263
Property Type Single Family Residence
Price Type --
Welcome to your dream resort! A breathtaking contemporary new build by renowned Design Tank architect, Tyler Kuenzi. This property combines modern elegance with unparalleled comfort. Spanning 5200 sq ft, this exquisite custom built residence features 5 spacious bedrooms, each with its own en-suite bath featuring stunning, fixtures, plus an additional powder room for guests. As you enter, you're greeted by an airy open-concept living space flooded with natural light. The state-of-the-art kitchen boasts Subzero/Wolf/Cove appliances, Shinnoki cabinetry, and a generous Taj Mahal quartz island perfect for entertaining. The adjoining dining area flows seamlessly into the inviting living room, highlighted by a stylish fireplace and large Western brand windows that showcase picturesque view. The master suite is a true retreat, complete with a luxurious spa-like bathroom featuring dual vanities, a soaking tub, and a walk-in shower. Each additional bedroom offers ample closet space and beautifully designed baths, ensuring comfort and privacy for everyone. Step outside to the beautifully landscaped resort-style backyard, including a private pickle ball court, ideal for alfresco dining or simply relaxing in your private oasis. Additional highlights include a large pantry, atrium, a spacious laundry room, and a four-car garage. Located in a desirable 85254, this home is just minutes away from top-rated schools, parks, and vibrant shopping and dining options.

9203 E Happy Hollow Drive Scottsdale, AZ 85262

$4,995,000
4 Beds
4.5 Baths
7,308 SqFt
Status Active
MLS # 6617612
Property Type Single Family Residence
Price Type --
Experience the epitome of luxury living in this exquisite Desert Mountain home designed by award winning builder Peter Magee, offered with a rare Golf Membership. The Family Room is an entertainer's dream and opens to the well-appointed and tastefully designed kitchen offering upgraded appliances, two islands and Brazilian soapstone countertops. The Great Room boasts an elegant wet bar and multiple lounging areas. A private and inviting owner's wing includes a spa like ensuite, oversized walk-in closet and separate laundry room. An abundance of natural light fills the home by day and cool evenings draw you to the expansive outdoor living spaces which include alfresco dining and a heated pool & spa to capture sunset, golf course, mountain & city light views. A true contemporary masterpiece

7291 N 71st Place Paradise Valley, AZ 85253

$4,995,000
6 Beds
8 Baths
8,412 SqFt
Status Active
MLS # 6635976
Property Type Single Family Residence
Price Type --
The best priced property, in one of the most prestigious neighborhoods of Paradise Valley, this home is a must see... The quiet & peaceful lot features an outstanding 8,412 SqFt residence in the exclusive Cheney Place (only 20 private homes in the community) boasts impeccable craftsmanship & artistry enhanced by lush landscaping and a captivating central fountain. This masterpiece includes a FULLY-FURNISHED family chapel, as well as a FULLY-FURNISHED 2 bedroom Guest House equipped with a full kitchen, a fireplace, a jetted tub, its own 2-car garage, and a seating area with a grill. Ideal for in-laws or extended family. The main house showcases 4 bedrooms, a sitting room, an office, a movie theater and a 3-car garage (5 total garage spaces including guest house garage). Access through the grand entrance to experience sheer beauty & custom details throughout (backyard furnishings also included). Abundant natural light graces every corner, from the formal living room to the large dining room that overlooks the front yard and the massive family room with a fireplace & a wet bar. This beauty features soaring tray ceilings, elegant chandeliers, an intercom, rounded archways, refined tile flooring, classical pillars, artful niches, plantation shutters, a central vacuum, and recessed lighting. The striking kitchen is a testament to culinary perfection! Hand-carved wood detailing, granite countertops, a large peninsula, a central island, and NEW Viking appliances demonstrate unparalleled luxury. The laundry room also features brand NEW spare appliances such as an all new double oven and even a new washer & dryer set! Relish morning views in the sunlit breakfast nook or indulge in the exceptional wine cellar that can fit up to 868 bottles. The opulent master retreat has a fireplace & a generous sitting room with private access. The lavish en-suite bath comes with dual vanities, a make-up vanity, a jetted tub with a glass block wall allowing abundant natural light in, and a bountiful walk-in closet. This impressive home has a second master bedroom with its own bathroom & a jetted tub. There is more! Work from home in the sizable office or enjoy unlimited movie nights in the spectacular home theater, which is soundproof & has a brand-new projector & receiver. The awe-inspiring backyard is a complete paradise offering al fresco dining areas, an outdoor kitchen, serene fountains, a resort-style heated pool & spa, a fire pit with built-in seating, re-coated flooring, and an entertainer's game room with a fireplace & a wet bar. 3-car garage attached to main house for added convenience. Don't forget about the cozy billiard area under the Pavilion in the backyard, the perfect area for joyful gatherings with family & friends. This magnificent value is a statement!! The pool has also been completely re-tiled/re-chipped & new pebble added as of 9/13/24! The exclusive Cheney Place gated community only has 20 lots. Words alone cannot capture its essence. Don't miss out on this opportunity to own this gem before it's too late!

6044 E Calle Del Paisano -- Scottsdale, AZ 85251

$4,995,000
5 Beds
5 Baths
5,235 SqFt
Status Active
MLS # 6721789
Property Type Single Family Residence
Price Type --
This quintessential Arcadia residence is located on a quiet, cul-de-sac street with no through traffic and offers the ideal lifestyle in a highly desirable neighborhood. Newly constructed in 2023 by Bolte Homes and ticking all the boxes, from the moment you enter the charming front courtyard you know something special lies ahead. The layout is ideal with a total 5235 sq ft. 3484 sq ft on the main level, which features a stunning great room, gourmet kitchen with butlers pantry, spacious primary suite and separate wellness room. The 1751 sq ft basement features two bedrooms, one and half baths, game room, wet bar and theatre room. The backyard and outdoor space is a dream and features a sparkling pool with swim up bar, spa and huge covered ramada with grill with lounge seating. Simply put, you'll never want to leave. Thoughtful design, attention to detail and custom finishes throughout. With gorgeous views of Camelback Mountain to top it off - this incredible home has it all.

40660 N 109th Place Scottsdale, AZ 85262

$4,995,000 - 4Br/5Ba -  for Sale in Desert Mountain, Scottsdale
Open House
$4,995,000
4 Beds
5 Baths
6,875 SqFt
Status Active
MLS # 6649794
Property Type Single Family Residence
Price Type --
Welcome to 40660 N 109th Place, a Desert Contemporary masterpiece originally designed by renowned architect David J. Wade, a native Arizonian. This extraordinary home has undergone a complete renovation, resulting in a harmonious blend of modern luxury and natural beauty. Nestled within the breathtaking high desert landscape, the home boasts strategically placed picture windows that frame the majestic mountain views from every vantage point. Situated on two spacious lots within the prestigious Desert Mountain Country Club, this residence offers a level of exclusivity and privacy that is truly unparalleled. The meticulous attention to detail is evident throughout the property, featuring grand coffered ceilings, exquisite French oak floors, elegant limestone fireplaces, and precast exposed concrete block walls that pay homage to the iconic designs of Frank Lloyd Wright. Immerse yourself in the sheer magnificence of this architectural masterpiece by touring the home in person. Prepare to be captivated by the seamless integration of indoor and outdoor living spaces, the finest craftsmanship, and the awe-inspiring natural surroundings. This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to own a true desert sanctuary that embodies the essence of luxury living.