How to Gain the Upper Hand in Real Estate Negotiations Without Being Mean or Rude

In a typical real estate transaction, numerous factors may be negotiated, and the terms of the purchase may be negotiated at different times throughout the process. For example, the contract may be negotiated at the time the original offer is made, but revisions to the contract may be negotiated after the property inspection has been completed. Both parties want to have the upper hand in negotiations, but those who focus on a few points are more likely to walk away feeling satisfied with the results of the negotiations.

Research All Factors Related To The Negotiation

A successful negotiation may be about achieving specific, desired goals, but in most cases, there will be a bit of give and take on both parties’ parts in order to find success. Those who have the upper hand in real estate negotiations will take time to research all factors related to the negotiations, and this includes everything from market conditions and how long the property has been on the market to how competitively priced the real estate is, how many other buyers there are and more.

Understand All Motives And Influences

Beyond outside factors related to the negotiation, there typically are personal motives and influences that must be considered. For example, a seller may be motivated to sell quickly due to a job offer in another city, or a buyer may be motivated because the property is the only one of its kind close to a great school. An experienced real estate agent can often gather and provide insight to their clients about the motives and influences of the other party that may impact the negotiations without revealing your personal motivations and therefore losing the upper hand in negotiations.

Consider Alternative Creative Solutions

After all external and personal factors have been researched and itemized, it may appear that one party has a clear upper hand in negotiations and the other party does not. However, in order to be successful in negotiations, typically both parties will need to feel as though they are getting what they want. After all parties’ motivations have been identified, it may be possible to think of creative, outside-the-box alternatives that may be agreeable to both parties.

When a buyer or a seller is preparing to negotiate with the other party, it is important that they fully understand all of the factors that may be at play in determining the outcome of negotiations. When buyers and sellers focus on these points before making an offer or counteroffer, they may find their negotiation efforts more successful.  For more information about how my extensive negotiation experience can benefit you, please give me a call – J.P. Cook – 602-320-4253.

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2023 W Rancho Drive Phoenix, AZ 85015

$549,999

5 Beds

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2,717 SqFt

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MLS # 6766472

Property Type Single Family Residence

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Central Phoenix home with a lot of character in a prime location that is walking distance to the Valley Metro Rail Station and the Spectrum Mall while being minutes away from I-17! This house includes a 500 sq ft guest house that has a separate entrance with full bathroom, huge living area, kitchen cabinets with separate heating and cooling unit. The guest house would be a great Airbnb, VRBO, or an in-law suite! If you have a green thumb, this house is for YOU, it offers lots of tree and vegetation: 2 mature orange trees, pomegranate, peach, tangerine, blood orange, 5 grapevines, artichoke, and rosemary. The house has a sustainable front and backyard with a distinctive water fountain and a wood crafted entry door. The main house features hand-carved Cantera stone, slate flooring, double-sided fireplace and 3 skylights throughout the house. Chef's kitchen boasts granite countertops, huge breakfast bar for additional seating, and stainless steel appliances. Walk-in closet, steam shower, jacuzzi tub and double vanity sink makes for a great master suite! All bathrooms have stone tile work from floor to ceiling with inset mirrors. The backyard of the home is very unique and features a fountain, fully mature orange tree, raised concrete trellis area, and outdoor fire-pit! Extended driveway, RV GATE, and a GARAGE! NO HOA! HURRY, this one won't last long!

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2537 E Carla Vista Drive Gilbert, AZ 85295

$549,999

3 Beds

2 Baths

1,791 SqFt

Status Active Under Contract

MLS # 6758610

Property Type Single Family Residence

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This beloved home is in very popular pet friendly area! Nestled next to greenbelt, community pool & basketball court. Gorgeous home w/ 3 BDS & den which can easily convert to 4th BD. Open floorplan. Kitchen has large breakfast bar which opens into living/dining area. Newer stainless steel appliances w/ breakfast nook. Any car enthusiasts? The 3 car-garage has been upgraded with Gladiator slats hung on studs on the walls in garage for hanging tools, cabinets, etc. Separate circuits for Garage HVAC & outlets bar. Dedicated 220 for air compressor. Circuit that supports elec vehicle. Trusses for electric line for work light & to attach to air compressor w/ rubber isolates. Very sturdy. Extra 1500 SF of concrete poured for custom black steel RV gate & parking. Tuff Shed w/ electric & custom wo

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723 W Rosal Place Chandler, AZ 85225

$549,999

4 Beds

2 Baths

1,938 SqFt

Status Active Under Contract

MLS # 6785017

Property Type Single Family Residence

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**NEW ROOF** on this fantastic 4-bed, 2-bath home nestled on a prime corner lot! Starring a 2-car garage, RV gate, & a low-care landscape. The inviting interior features modern light fixtures, neutral paint, wood-look tile flooring throughout, and vaulted ceilings that add to the airy feel. If entertaining is on your mind, you'll love the perfectly flowing open layout paired with a fireplace in the living space! The impressive kitchen boasts black SS appliances, granite counters, glass tile backsplash, white shaker cabinets, and an island w/breakfast bar. Large main bedroom has French doors to the back, a walk-in closet, and an ensuite with dual sinks & a soaking tub. Out the back, you have a storage shed and a Pergola patio to relax while enjoying BBQ. Great location! Welcome home

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1321 N Delmar -- Mesa, AZ 85203

$549,998

4 Beds

2.5 Baths

2,507 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6770242

Property Type Single Family Residence

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Welcome to this meticulously maintained single-level home in Mesa, featuring 4 bedrooms and 2.5 baths. As you enter, you'll find a formal living room and dining room with a charming wood-burning fireplace, perfect for cozy gatherings. The home boasts new carpet and fresh paint throughout, along with a newer roof and AC units for optimal comfort. Enjoy the convenience of garage cabinets and additional storage, along with two sheds for your outdoor needs. Step outside to a large patio, ideal for entertaining or relaxing in the sun. The property features an RV gate for added accessibility. Located in a vibrant community with a pool and lakes, and near a golf course, this home is also centrally located to shopping, dining, and easy commute to surrounding cities. Don't miss out!

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2121 W Sonoran Desert Drive Unit 41 Phoenix, AZ 85085

$549,995

3 Beds

2.5 Baths

1,567 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6648426

Property Type Townhouse

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Check out this beautifully crafted 2-bedroom 2.5 bath home with well-appointed interior finishes. The casual dining area is adjacent to the kitchen and provides a convenient and intimate setting. Featuring designer upgrades throughout including flooring, cabinetry, quartz countertops, and stainless-steel kitchen appliances. The community is situated just minutes away from shopping, dining, and entertainment. Call today to learn more about this stunning Quick Move In and lending incentives!

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9390 Mead Lane Snowflake, AZ 85937

$549,995

6 Beds

4 Baths

2,624 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6734119

Property Type Manufactured Home

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Wow! Check out this opportunity! 2 homes on 40 acres fully off grid and self-sustaining. The PRIMARY HOME offers 1568 square feet of living space with 3 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms. Floors recently upgraded to vinyl plank throughout. Split bedroom floor plan. Kitchen features hickory cabinets, granite counter tops, large kitchen island, farm sink and NEWER gas stove. Primary home is powered by 30 solar panels which is sustained by banks of lithium batteries. In addition to a 2 car masonry garage, the primary home also features a single car Graceland garage, a 14 X 40 carport and a 10 x 20 Graceland Lofted Barn Cabin for extra storage. The GUEST HOME offers 1056 square feet of living space with 3 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms. See additional description. The living space is bright and airy and features a split bedroom floor plan and breakfast bar. Guest home is powered by 25 solar panels and sustained by banks of 12 AGM Maintenance Free batteries. 1 private well services both homes. Power is also located nearby if you would prefer that option. This property would be perfect for multi-generational housing or could use guest home as rental income! Property is all off-grid but only 10 miles from town. Best of both worlds! Option to purchase home with 80 acres and additional private well on the upper 40 acres available. See MLS #6731913

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11432 E Quicksilver Avenue Mesa, AZ 85212

$549,995

5 Beds

2.5 Baths

3,096 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6736112

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Large 5-Bedroom, All Bedrooms are large, formal Dining room, Kitchen Nook plus formal Dining Room, Pantry , Living room open to the Island Kitchen, Main floor Master Bedroom plus another on upper floor, Huge Loft Rec room, No smokers or pets ever, Southern facing, Two car Garage, new Epoxy floor, 2 new Trane 4 ton AC units, 10 year warranty, These are gas for lowest cost vs electric, Brand new Tile roof, 10 year warranty, New vinyl thermopane windows and blinds, New Tile flooring throughout the home, new bath fixtures, Large 7,000 sq ft lot, Low maintenance backyard big enough for a pool, Lockable side gate, lowest HOA dues, Lowest taxes for this large a home, Great Parks, Kids play areas, Easy commute to both 202 and the 60 freeway, This is the lowest priced 5 Bedroom in 85212 New Roof Warranty

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12007 W Parkway Lane Avondale, AZ 85323

$549,995

4 Beds

2 Baths

2,370 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6741768

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Explore this inspired Raleigh home, ready for quick move-in on a homesite boasting driveway pavers and front yard landscaping. Included features: an inviting covered entry; a quiet study; a gourmet kitchen offering 42'' cabinets, quartz countertops, stainless-steel appliances, a double oven, a walk-in pantry and a center island; an open dining area; a generous great room with center-meet doors leading onto a relaxing covered patio; a lavish primary suite showcasing a large walk-in closet and a private bath with cultured marble countertops; a convenient laundry; a mudroom and a 3-car garage. This home also offers stone tile flooring, additional windows and ceiling fan prewiring in select rooms as well as airy 10' ceilings throughout.

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28430 N 51st Street Cave Creek, AZ 85331

$549,995

3 Beds

2.5 Baths

1,710 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6758424

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Close to Dynamite and Tatum Blvd., Close to Desert Hill Shopping Center, Located on a Cul-De-Sac,Great floor plan, Large Master Bedroom with large two vanity, Shower/Tub, Bath, private water closet, large walkin Closet, Updated Kitchen with Stainless Appliances and new Refrigerator and stainless sink, Open to the Dining or Family room, Super high ceiling Living room also, Two other bedrooms are at opposite ends of the upstairs and share a full bath, Two Car garage has lots of storage shelves and brand new Epoxy floor, Large private backyard that's easy maintenance, Close to the 101 and 51 freeways, easy commute to the downtown Phoenix, Scottsdale areas, 30 minutes to the Airport, This is the lowest priced 3 bedroom, 3 bath home in Cave Creek, Has low HOA fee and low taxes

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35176 N Lead Way San Tan Valley, AZ 85144

Open House

$549,995

3 Beds

2.5 Baths

2,212 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6787371

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Love everything about this home. The open-concept kitchen and great room provide the ideal space for entertaining. A first-floor office provides the space to work from home. Multi-panel stacking doors and a luxury outdoor living space enhance your outdoor experience. The community is situated just minutes away from shopping, dining, and entertainment.

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2606 E Abe Truckle Avenue San Tan Valley, AZ 85140

$549,990

3 Beds

2.5 Baths

2,171 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6730768

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Located in San Tan Valley, this adorable single story, 2171 sqare foot residence boasts a meticulously designed living space. Crafted with a keen eye for both style and functionality, this home harmoniously blends modern elegance with timeless comfort. This home seamlessly integrates open-concept living, featuring a den, 8' doors, 4-panel center sliding glass door, a large kitchen adorned with quartz countertops, white cabinets and stainless steel appliances. The expansive owner's suite includes dual vanities in the bathroom and a large walk-in closet. Additional bedrooms offer ample space for family or guests, each thoughtfully designed with comfort in mind. Complete with a 4-car garage, two car tandem and a RV garage this residence represents the epitome of ideal living.

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4042 S 177th Avenue Goodyear, AZ 85338

$549,990

5 Beds

3 Baths

2,530 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6780520

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Discover this exceptional single-story home in Goodyear, designed with 2,530 square feet of spacious elegance. With five bedrooms, three bathrooms, and a three-car tandem garage, this home offers both style and functionality. The grand foyer leads to a large open-concept kitchen featuring 36-inch umber slate cabinets, pristine white quartz countertops, a generous island, and a walk-in pantry, perfect for cooking and gatherings. Each bedroom includes a walk-in closet, with the primary suite boasting a huge walk-in closet and a luxurious en-suite bathroom complete with dual vanities, a soaking tub, and a walk-in shower. Thoughtfully selected finishes like Dal Vicinity white wood-like tile flooring, cozy beige carpet, and black pendant lighting add a modern touch. Enjoy a large covered patio ideal for outdoor relaxation. This home includes all appliances, from the kitchen to the washer, dryer, and window treatments, offering convenience and value. Please note, this property is currently under construction and will be ready in approximately six weeks. Located in a desirable neighborhood near schools, parks, shopping, and dining, this home will soon be the perfect blend of comfort, style, and convenience, waiting for its first residents.

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