How to Gain the Upper Hand in Real Estate Negotiations Without Being Mean or Rude

In a typical real estate transaction, numerous factors may be negotiated, and the terms of the purchase may be negotiated at different times throughout the process. For example, the contract may be negotiated at the time the original offer is made, but revisions to the contract may be negotiated after the property inspection has been completed. Both parties want to have the upper hand in negotiations, but those who focus on a few points are more likely to walk away feeling satisfied with the results of the negotiations.

Research All Factors Related To The Negotiation

A successful negotiation may be about achieving specific, desired goals, but in most cases, there will be a bit of give and take on both parties’ parts in order to find success. Those who have the upper hand in real estate negotiations will take time to research all factors related to the negotiations, and this includes everything from market conditions and how long the property has been on the market to how competitively priced the real estate is, how many other buyers there are and more.

Understand All Motives And Influences

Beyond outside factors related to the negotiation, there typically are personal motives and influences that must be considered. For example, a seller may be motivated to sell quickly due to a job offer in another city, or a buyer may be motivated because the property is the only one of its kind close to a great school. An experienced real estate agent can often gather and provide insight to their clients about the motives and influences of the other party that may impact the negotiations without revealing your personal motivations and therefore losing the upper hand in negotiations.

Consider Alternative Creative Solutions

After all external and personal factors have been researched and itemized, it may appear that one party has a clear upper hand in negotiations and the other party does not. However, in order to be successful in negotiations, typically both parties will need to feel as though they are getting what they want. After all parties’ motivations have been identified, it may be possible to think of creative, outside-the-box alternatives that may be agreeable to both parties.

When a buyer or a seller is preparing to negotiate with the other party, it is important that they fully understand all of the factors that may be at play in determining the outcome of negotiations. When buyers and sellers focus on these points before making an offer or counteroffer, they may find their negotiation efforts more successful.  For more information about how my extensive negotiation experience can benefit you, please give me a call – J.P. Cook – 602-320-4253.

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10223 E Ulysses Avenue Mesa, AZ 85212

$554,379

3 Beds

2.5 Baths

1,994 SqFt

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MLS # 6769962

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Welcome to this GORGEOUS 2024 home in the highly sought-after Medley at Avalon Crossing! Over $83k in UPGRADES! This FANTASTIC home combines modern elegance + thoughtful living spaces! GOURMET kitchen features quartz countertops + Whirlpool stainless appliance suite! The great room is perfect for entertaining, while the upstairs loft offers additional living space. Private primary suite w/ensuite bath! Balcony! Situated in a BEAUTIFUL community, residents can take advantage of wonderful amenities including a heated pool, playgrounds, bocce ball courts, and scenic walking paths lined with trees. Perfectly designed for modern living, this home offers luxury, comfort, and community all in one! WELCOME HOME!

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36131 N Desert Tea Drive Queen Creek, AZ 85140

$554,000

3 Beds

3 Baths

2,186 SqFt

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MLS # 6758359

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With over $140K in upgrades, this ''Lock and Leave'' home is situated in Encanterra Country Club.. The low-maintenance landscaping is fully handled, allowing you to relax outdoors by the gas firepit and enjoy the soothing sounds of the fountain. The home is light and bright w the primary suite and bedroom 2 downstairs. Custom California Closets and tons of storage space. The second floor offers a separate TV room/loft spacious office, and a third bedroom with a full bathroom. The garage is equipped with a workbench, and features a tankless water heater with a recirculation pump for instant hot water. The backyard is fully fenced and this home is steps away from both clubhouses. Book your tour today and start living the Encanterra life in 2024!

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15016 W Monterey Way Goodyear, AZ 85395

$554,000

2 Beds

2 Baths

2,104 SqFt

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MLS # 6765917

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THIS IS THE ONE! Light & bright Milano model on quiet N/S facing lot w/oversized golf cart garage & expanded covered patio -- perfect for all your entertaining needs. Primary Bedroom, Family Room, Guest Bedroom & Main Garage have ALL been EXTENDED 4-ft at build! Home is move-in ready w/refreshed white cabinetry, complete interior/ exterior painted (2024), & full new roof (2024). Additional updates include new carpet in bedrooms (2024), new light fixtures (2024), & new stainless appliances (2024). Home also features split bed floor plan for guest privacy, vaulted ceilings, intimate front courtyard, separate office/den, formal dining/living room or flex space & large laundry room w/view window. Add this one to your MUST SEE list & start enjoying the incredible PebbleCreek lifestyle today!

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362 Ancora Drive Litchfield Park, AZ 85340

$554,000

3 Beds

2 Baths

1,614 SqFt

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MLS # 6775129

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Within the highly desirable Old Litchfield Park you will find this tastefully updated 3 bedroom 2 bath home with Pool and No HOA. Upon arrival you will notice the block construction, mature shade trees and large patio/seating area. At entry the vaulted ceilings, wood plank style floor tile and sunlight shining through upgraded dual pane windows with real wood plantation shutters will invite you in. Remodeled kitchen boasts granite countertops, stainless steel appliances, a farmhouse sink and backyard pool view. Owner's suite includes walk-in closet, built in vanity and large slider door with direct backyard access. Other interior features include multiple living areas, neutral paint throughout and inside laundry. Outback you will find a desert oasis ready for relaxation and... entertainment with newly resurfaced pool, refinished cool decking, covered patio, multiple seating areas and plenty of grass for pets or play. Other exterior features include storage shed, on roof solar and north/south exposure. Area features and activities in and around Old Litchfield Park include Wigwam Resort, golf, neighborhood lake, multiple parks with playgrounds, restaurants, tennis courts, basketball courts, library, community pool and recreation center.Welcome Home!

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225 E Mclellan Road Mesa, AZ 85201

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$554,000

3 Beds

2 Baths

1,850 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6746273

Property Type Single Family Residence

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Do not miss this charming 3-bedroom 2 bath upgraded home. This is one of the best lots in the sub-division. Wonderful corner lot with greenbelt across the street. Your entry leads to a spacious great room with 10-foot ceilings and windows looking out to your resort style backyard. The kitchen has been highly upgraded with beautiful cabinets, massive island and quartz counters. Enjoy a breakfast room as well as a large breakfast bar. Your master suite has a walk-in shower, dble vanity, water closet and a large walk-in closet. Both secondary bedrooms are good sized and share a bathroom. Large backyard with a sparkling Pebble Tech pool and lots of privacy from this corner lot. Whole house filtration system and solar. Custom Wood Blinds Throughout.

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5522 N 193rd Avenue Litchfield Park, AZ 85340

$553,954

4 Beds

3 Baths

2,751 SqFt

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MLS # 6753532

Property Type Single Family Residence

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BRAND NEW COMPLETED HOME! SELLER IS OFFERING BELOW MARKET FINANCING! Beautiful open floor plan with 4 bedrooms, 3 baths, Flex Room & 2 car garage on an oversized lot. Ceilings are 10' and all interior Doors are 8'! Beautiful Kitchen with Staggered slate cabinets, Stainless Steel appliances w gas, Wood plank tile throughout the home except for the bedrooms. Beautiful Quartz counter tops in the kitchen, walk in tiled Shower in Master with separate his and her vanities. Guest rooms are large, and one has a walk-in closet. Wonderful flex room for that home office or den.

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2102 W Kuralt Drive Anthem, AZ 85086

$553,900

5 Beds

3 Baths

2,143 SqFt

Status Active Under Contract

MLS # 6740759

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Fabulous single story home with separate entrance Casita (for multi-generational living, or spectacular office) in a lovely, quiet neighborhood! You'll love the gorgeous curb appeal with a gated courtyard. Light, bright open floor plan. Inside find 18'' ceramic tile floors, new carpet in bedrooms, plantation shutters and neutral color designer paint. Kitchen is open to family room with huge kitchen island, corian countertops, upgraded maple cabinets, huge pantry, stainless steel appliances. Primary features en-suite bathroom with remodeled custom walk-in shower, walk-in closet, designer window coverings and easy access door to patio. NEW A/C, sunscreens, & new Water Heater! Solar lease only $79.65 per month! WHAT A DEAL! Lease started 9/2012. Exterior boasts extended paver patio, low maintenance synthetic grass, plumbed gas pipe, and lush mature landscaping. Finished garage features extended cabinets for storage, sink, water softener and R/O. Close to Diamond Canyon Elementary, grassy parks, play parks and splash pad! Anthem Parkside Amenities include 16-acre park with catch-release lake, Pickleball, gym, skatepark, baseball, softball, tennis, over 37 pocket parks, hiking/biking trails, soccer fields, bocce ball, and so much more!

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44163 W Palo Abeto Drive Maricopa, AZ 85138

$553,711

4 Beds

3.5 Baths

4,512 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6773810

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Step into this exceptional home in the Palo Brea subdivision. The beautiful kitchen dazzles with expansive granite countertops, sleek cabinets, a walk-in pantry, and stainless steel appliances. The primary master suite boasts two walk-in closets, a soaking tub, walk-in shower, dual sinks, and a private toilet room. A second guest master includes a full bath, linen closet, and walk-in closet. Upstairs, a flexible fifth bedroom is perfect for a theater or sewing room, accompanied by a game room with billiards and darts. Two additional bedroom share a Jack & Jill bath, each with walk-in closets. Downstairs features a dining room, den, family and living rooms, a half bath, and a well-appointed kitchen, perfect for entertaining.

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4721 N 177th Drive Goodyear, AZ 85395

$553,490

5 Beds

3 Baths

2,530 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6779778

Property Type Single Family Residence

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BRAND NEW, energy-efficient home available in GATED COMMUNITY! The showstopper single-level Bailey floorplan boasts a charming front porch, 5 bedrooms each with a spacious walk-in closet and a 3-car garage! This home has umber cabinets with white quartz countertops, wood-look tile flooring with beige carpet. ALREADY INCLUDED - washer, dryer, window blinds (except slider), refrigerator, soft water loop and MORE!!!! Enjoy EXCLUSIVE amenities right at your doorstep including parks, pickleball, soccer, play area, walking trails, basketball court, ramada with outdoor kitchen, gas grill and fireplace, and more!!! Each home is built with innovative, energy-efficient features designed to help you ENJOY more SAVINGS!

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10231 E Ulysses Avenue Mesa, AZ 85212

$553,418

3 Beds

2.5 Baths

1,994 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6769957

Property Type Single Family Residence

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Welcome to this BEAUTIFUL 2024 home in the highly sought-after Medley at Avalon Crossing! Over $82k in UPGRADES! This GORGEOUS home combines modern elegance + thoughtful living spaces! GOURMET kitchen features quartz countertops + Whirlpool stainless appliance suite! The great room is perfect for entertaining, while the upstairs loft offers additional living space. Private primary suite w/ensuite bath! Balcony! Situated in a BEAUTIFUL community, residents can take advantage of wonderful amenities including a heated pool, playgrounds, bocce ball courts, and scenic walking paths lined with trees. Perfectly designed for modern living, this home offers luxury, comfort, and community all in one! WELCOME HOME!

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2389 W Spaulding Avenue Apache Junction, AZ 85120

$553,300

4 Beds

3 Baths

2,273 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6761575

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

3 car garage!! The Courtland floorplan offers a spacious and well-designed single-level living experience, encompassing 2,273 square feet. You are welcomed into an open-concept living area that seamlessly connects the kitchen, dining, and family rooms. The kitchen is a chef's delight, equipped with modern gas appliances, ample counter space, and a large island that serves as the heart of the home, ideal for meal preparation and casual dining. The adjacent dining area provides ample space for family meals and entertaining guests, while the family room is perfect for relaxation and gatherings. This community features resort like amenities including a large pool, splashpad, park & clubhouse with fitness center!

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17149 N Stonebluff Road Maricopa, AZ 85139

$553,000

3 Beds

2 Baths

1,922 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6666798

Property Type Manufactured Home

Price Type --

This beautiful new Champion home, on an expansive, gated lot of 4.55 acres, is on a paved road with stunning mountain views and unforgettable Arizona sunsets. This spacious 3-bedroom, 2-bathroom home has more than enough room to entertain and make unforgettable memories. A 30x35-foot enclosed shop with a concrete floor and convenient gravel driveway offers plenty of room for projects or storage. This home is built for Arizona, with upgraded 2''x6'' exterior walls with R-19 insulation, R40 roof insulation, well water, and unheard-of power availability consisting of two 400 amp panels for your home, shop, electric vehicles, or anything else you choose to build. This is a uniquely attractive home with numerous upgrades that you won't want to miss, and no HOA to limit your possibilities

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