Selling Your Home? Here’s Why You’ll Want to Keep Your Emotions out of It

Selling your home can be an extremely emotional process, but it’s important that you don’t let your emotions get the best of you. Learn which common mistakes emotional sellers make when selling their home so that you can identify them during your own sale and overcome them before it’s too late.

Price Paralysis

You love your home, you know the value it provides to its owner, and you think it’s special compared to other houses on the market… and that it should be priced as such!

Be wary of this thought pattern though, as sellers who are emotionally attached to their home tend to overprice their listing, ignore market data, and be stubborn in negotiations.

It is perfectly normal for your emotions to cloud your judgement when first listing, but it is important that you listen to your real estate agent’s advice and stick to reason, or you may find your home failing to close.

Pricing Based On Need

Your home has a market value, and you can’t ignore that. It’s a fact.

When moving to a new property, it is essential that you understand that you cannot price your current home based on the amount of money you need to purchase your desired next home. This mindset is unrealistic, and can drag out your home sale.

If the purchase of a new home is contingent upon how much you make from selling your current home, be sure that you do not celebrate too early. Wait until you have closed the deal before gauging what you can afford to buy next, or stick to a property that is definitely within your budget.

Maintain An Open Mind

While you may love the way your personal items and interior design pieces make your home feel, it is best to stage your home very impersonally for showings. This may require re-painting rooms to more neutral tones, taking down your favorite family photos, and using professional staging furniture rather than your own. Doing so isn’t admitting that you have bad taste, but rather accepting that buyers have a wide variety of taste themselves, and you want to appeal to them all.

You should also keep an open mind when it comes to who you sell your home to. You may have an idea of what you consider to be the perfect buyer, but ultimately the goal is to sell your home. What the buyer does with it after the fact is up to them.

To avoid these emotional home-seller mistakes, give me a call and I will guide you through the process and keep you on the right track – J.P. Cook – 602-320-4253.

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9197 W Molly Lane Peoria, AZ 85383

$1,269,900

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3 Baths

3,799 SqFt

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MLS # 6776781

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$1,269,000

5 Beds

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2909 N 81st Place Scottsdale, AZ 85251

$1,265,000

4 Beds

2 Baths

2,217 SqFt

Status Active Under Contract

MLS # 6763705

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30804 N 120th Avenue Peoria, AZ 85383

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$1,265,000

5 Beds

4 Baths

3,354 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6712297

Property Type Single Family Residence

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Blackstone exclusive golf and CC community. Newest upgrades Including new paint in/out, flooring, pool pump, custom power window treatments and so much more. Super clean move in ready home! Kitchen overlooks great room with fireplace and boasts SS appliances, oversized island with prep sink an abundance of cabinets with roll outs, huge walk in pantry with second fridge. This split floor plan provides privacy to master in one corner, across the home a guest suite and separate hall leads to three addition bedrooms with media area. Large private lot with natural space behind, mtn views, pool, spa, extended paver patio, gas plumed for bbq, putting green to sharpen your game,. It's your chance to live the lifestyle you deserve in a spectacular home. provides privacy to company. Staycations are a thing of the past with this spacious resort style yard that includes extended covered paver patio, pool, spa, putting green complimented with mountain views. Freshly painted inside and out, new flooring, added enhancements make this home move in ready. It takes only moments to fall in love with this home. Area highlights include biking/walking paths, play areas, clubhouse/rec, tennis/pickleball, work out facility, golf, and more all within minutes of the 303 access. It's time to enjoy life!

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3748 E Mare Court Phoenix, AZ 85044

$1,264,000

6 Beds

3.5 Baths

4,801 SqFt

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MLS # 6718151

Property Type Single Family Residence

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30813 N 138th Street Scottsdale, AZ 85262

$1,259,000

4 Beds

3 Baths

3,320 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6768091

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

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23164 N 73rd Place Scottsdale, AZ 85255

$1,258,000

3 Beds

3 Baths

2,113 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6785097

Property Type Single Family Residence

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19950 W Cambridge Avenue Buckeye, AZ 85396

$1,258,000

4 Beds

3.5 Baths

2,919 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6736777

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

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$1,255,000

2 Beds

2 Baths

2,646 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6774365

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

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$1,254,900

4 Beds

3.5 Baths

3,351 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6776053

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

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14700 S Tuthill Road Buckeye, AZ 85326

$1,253,632

4 Beds

3 Baths

3,436 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6768652

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Nestled on a sprawling 5.38-acre estate, this meticulously remodeled ranch home offers a perfect blend of luxury living and agricultural charm. The main residence features 4 spacious bedrms and 3 bathrms, along with a versatile bonus room. Step outside to discover a backyard paradise, complete with a sparkling pool that promises endless fun and relaxation under the sun. This estate is a horse lover's dream, featuring a fully equipped barndominium with 2 cozy bedrooms and 1 ba, perfect for guests or as a caretaker's quarters. The estate is designed to cater to all aspects of farming and equestrian activities, boasting an impressive arena, 10 horse stalls, a riding & corral area for training and enjoyment. The horse walker & multiple water sources across the property ensures the utmost utmost convenience and care for your equine friends. With ample space for gardening, livestock, and other agricultural pursuits, this property offers a unique opportunity to live a life of self-sufficiency and connection to the land. Whether you're a seasoned farmer, an equestrian enthusiast, or simply seeking a serene and spacious retreat from the hustle and bustle, this property is sure to captivate and inspire. Welcome home to your very own piece of paradise, where luxury meets country living at its finest.

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3295 W Mesquite Street Phoenix, AZ 85086

$1,250,000

4 Beds

3.5 Baths

3,038 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6783088

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Stunning new construction luxury home by NEXTGEN Builders to be built: This luxurious home features 4 bedrooms plus an office/den, 3.5 bathrooms, and high-quality finishes throughout. The spacious design includes an oversized 2-car garage plus a 46+ foot RV garage with a 12x14-foot tall garage door, set on a large lot without HOA restrictions. Highlights include an oversized contemporary front door, 2x6 exterior framing, a large kitchen island with quartz countertops, and walk-in closets in all bedrooms. The Owner's bathroom offers a spacious entry shower, standalone tub, and double sinks. Other features include 8-foot doors, 12 ft ceiling, energy-efficient spray foam insulation, and a post-tension foundation. Choose your options. Please note, photos are of a model home.

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