Selling Your Home? Here’s Why You’ll Want to Keep Your Emotions out of It

Selling your home can be an extremely emotional process, but it’s important that you don’t let your emotions get the best of you. Learn which common mistakes emotional sellers make when selling their home so that you can identify them during your own sale and overcome them before it’s too late.

Price Paralysis

You love your home, you know the value it provides to its owner, and you think it’s special compared to other houses on the market… and that it should be priced as such!

Be wary of this thought pattern though, as sellers who are emotionally attached to their home tend to overprice their listing, ignore market data, and be stubborn in negotiations.

It is perfectly normal for your emotions to cloud your judgement when first listing, but it is important that you listen to your real estate agent’s advice and stick to reason, or you may find your home failing to close.

Pricing Based On Need

Your home has a market value, and you can’t ignore that. It’s a fact.

When moving to a new property, it is essential that you understand that you cannot price your current home based on the amount of money you need to purchase your desired next home. This mindset is unrealistic, and can drag out your home sale.

If the purchase of a new home is contingent upon how much you make from selling your current home, be sure that you do not celebrate too early. Wait until you have closed the deal before gauging what you can afford to buy next, or stick to a property that is definitely within your budget.

Maintain An Open Mind

While you may love the way your personal items and interior design pieces make your home feel, it is best to stage your home very impersonally for showings. This may require re-painting rooms to more neutral tones, taking down your favorite family photos, and using professional staging furniture rather than your own. Doing so isn’t admitting that you have bad taste, but rather accepting that buyers have a wide variety of taste themselves, and you want to appeal to them all.

You should also keep an open mind when it comes to who you sell your home to. You may have an idea of what you consider to be the perfect buyer, but ultimately the goal is to sell your home. What the buyer does with it after the fact is up to them.

To avoid these emotional home-seller mistakes, give me a call and I will guide you through the process and keep you on the right track – J.P. Cook – 602-320-4253.

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10611 E Tumbleweed Avenue Mesa, AZ 85212

$1,250,000

5 Beds

4.5 Baths

3,996 SqFt

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MLS # 6739419

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$1,250,000

4 Beds

3 Baths

2,315 SqFt

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MLS # 6749349

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4880 E Beehive Road San Tan Valley, AZ 85140

$1,250,000

5 Beds

3.5 Baths

3,420 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6753373

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8905 E Mountain Spring Road Scottsdale, AZ 85255

$1,250,000

2 Beds

2.5 Baths

2,431 SqFt

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MLS # 6764265

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6979 E Mighty Saguaro Way Scottsdale, AZ 85266

$1,250,000

3 Beds

2.5 Baths

2,450 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6765050

Property Type Single Family Residence

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10859 E Tierra Drive Scottsdale, AZ 85259

$1,250,000

3 Beds

2.5 Baths

2,758 SqFt

Status Active Under Contract

MLS # 6726803

Property Type Single Family Residence

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1358 E Mclellan Boulevard Phoenix, AZ 85014

$1,250,000

6 Beds

4.5 Baths

3,314 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6767163

Property Type Single Family Residence

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8281 E Buteo Drive Scottsdale, AZ 85255

$1,250,000

3 Beds

2.5 Baths

2,672 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6769512

Property Type Single Family Residence

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$1,250,000

4 Beds

2.5 Baths

2,328 SqFt

Status Active Under Contract

MLS # 6711664

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

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3662 E Sunnydale Drive Queen Creek, AZ 85142

$1,250,000

5 Beds

4 Baths

3,216 SqFt

Status Active Under Contract

MLS # 6744707

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Stunning Custom Home with Amazing Mountain Views on a Huge Custom Lot with No HOA. This Split & Open Floorplan with High Ceilings features 5 Bedrooms, and 4 Bathrooms. Beautiful Wood and Travertine Flooring T/O. The Kitchen has an Oversized Granite Island and a separate breakfast bar, Custom Cabinets, Large Walk-In Pantry , Built-in Refrigerator, Beverage Refrigerator , and Tons of Counter and Cabinet Space, Open to your family room. Formal Living and Formal Dining Area have Coffered Ceilings. Oversized Inside Laundry with Sink also a Second Laundry in Garage. Enjoy your large Primary with Coffered Ceilings, Private Exit at the Backyard. Beautiful en-suite featuring a large vanity with 2 sinks, and a separate shower and tub with a walk-in closet. Custom window coverings T/O. Casita with separate entrance features bedroom 5 and bathroom 4. Oversized 3 Car Side entry Garage with Epoxy Floors, Whole House Filtration system. Long Paver Driveway and Paver Circular Driveway. Oversized Rv Gate for Ample Parking. The Back Yard Oasis has a Large Salt Water Pool, Rock Waterfall/Slide/Grato. Extended Covered Patio With Ceiling Fans. Covered Built In BBQ, outdoor kitchen, TV and sound system, Lighting, Sink and Beverage Refrigerator, Primo BBQ Grill, Custom Concrete Countertops. Sand Vollyball Court, Large Grass Area and is Surrounded by Many Citrus Trees and Spectacular Mountain Views. Queen Creek address with Gilbert services and Chandler Schools. Come see all this home has to offer.

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7635 E Camino Vivaz -- Scottsdale, AZ 85255

$1,250,000

3 Beds

3 Baths

2,220 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6752515

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Newest home built in this private gated North Scottsdale community. No expense was spared on upgrades for this 3 bed, +den, 3 bath home with open floor plan. From the soaring 12 ft ceilings, to the gourmet Custom Chefs kitchen which has top of line GE Monogram appliances, double stacked custom cabinets, and waterfall countertops! Your spacious great room has natural light flooding in, along with gorgeous mountain views in the back yard. It is the perfect place to entertain guests! All of the bathrooms throughout the home have floor to ceiling upgraded tile showers, cabinets and granite counters to match! This smart home comes equipped with a Ring doorbell, alarm system, smart front door lock, thermostats, water flow monitoring system and you can open your garage door all from a simple app on your phone anywhere. Plus, your 2-car garage is epoxy coated and has an existing outlet for Electric Vehicle charging! Your new home also features beautiful front and backyard landscaping with automatic drip system and synthetic grass in the backyard. Close to the high end shopping, dining & events that North Scottsdale has to offer and only a short distance to numerous golf courses and easy access to hiking trails.Don't miss out on this fantastic home!

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5243 E Grandview Road Scottsdale, AZ 85254

$1,250,000

4 Beds

2 Baths

2,414 SqFt

Status Active Under Contract

MLS # 6769660

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Discover the ultimate Scottsdale lifestyle in this beautifully designed 4-bedroom, 2-bath home, situated on over 1/3 acre. Crafted for both comfort and entertainment, this property features an open-concept kitchen with granite countertops, stainless steel appliances, and a large island with seating for four. Enjoy versatile living spaces, including living, family and formal dining room accented by vaulted ceilings and recessed lighting. The primary suite is remodeled with 2 vanities, walk in shower, 2 walk in closets and private exit to pool. Relax by the large heated pool, dine under the covered pergola, and enjoy the lush surroundings of palm/fruit trees and large grassy areas. Located just minutes from Kierland Commons, Scottsdale Quarter, premier golf courses, and hiking trail

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