Selling Your Home? Here’s Why You’ll Want to Keep Your Emotions out of It

Selling your home can be an extremely emotional process, but it’s important that you don’t let your emotions get the best of you. Learn which common mistakes emotional sellers make when selling their home so that you can identify them during your own sale and overcome them before it’s too late.

Price Paralysis

You love your home, you know the value it provides to its owner, and you think it’s special compared to other houses on the market… and that it should be priced as such!

Be wary of this thought pattern though, as sellers who are emotionally attached to their home tend to overprice their listing, ignore market data, and be stubborn in negotiations.

It is perfectly normal for your emotions to cloud your judgement when first listing, but it is important that you listen to your real estate agent’s advice and stick to reason, or you may find your home failing to close.

Pricing Based On Need

Your home has a market value, and you can’t ignore that. It’s a fact.

When moving to a new property, it is essential that you understand that you cannot price your current home based on the amount of money you need to purchase your desired next home. This mindset is unrealistic, and can drag out your home sale.

If the purchase of a new home is contingent upon how much you make from selling your current home, be sure that you do not celebrate too early. Wait until you have closed the deal before gauging what you can afford to buy next, or stick to a property that is definitely within your budget.

Maintain An Open Mind

While you may love the way your personal items and interior design pieces make your home feel, it is best to stage your home very impersonally for showings. This may require re-painting rooms to more neutral tones, taking down your favorite family photos, and using professional staging furniture rather than your own. Doing so isn’t admitting that you have bad taste, but rather accepting that buyers have a wide variety of taste themselves, and you want to appeal to them all.

You should also keep an open mind when it comes to who you sell your home to. You may have an idea of what you consider to be the perfect buyer, but ultimately the goal is to sell your home. What the buyer does with it after the fact is up to them.

To avoid these emotional home-seller mistakes, give me a call and I will guide you through the process and keep you on the right track – J.P. Cook – 602-320-4253.

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3018 N 50th Street Phoenix, AZ 85018

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3,819 SqFt

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MLS # 6739740

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8196 E Sunnyside Drive Scottsdale, AZ 85260

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4 Beds

3 Baths

3,097 SqFt

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MLS # 6709760

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10595 S State Route 69 -- Mayer, AZ 86333

$1,490,000

3 Beds

5 Baths

4,666 SqFt

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MLS # 6752671

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Welcome to your dream horse training facility!! Positioned on 12 sprawling acres of picturesque landscape in Mayer, AZ. This exceptional property combines western life with luxury living! A grand 4,666 square foot home features 3 spacious bedrooms and a versatile loft. Enjoy the convenience of a dedicated laundry room and a well-appointed office. The two master bathrooms offer opulent amenities, including tile finishes, a walk-in shower, a classic clawfoot tub, and a soothing jacuzzi tub. The expansive kitchen boasts upgraded appliances, granite countertops, and ample space for culinary creativity. The great room is a showstopper with its floor-to-ceiling rock fireplace, creating a warm and inviting atmosphere. The property includes a 4,000 square foot horse barn with 10 stalls, a wash rack, and a tack room with a sink and refrigerator, ensuring top-notch care for your horses. The facility also features four large turnouts with shade structures, a cutting pen, a round pen, and a hot walker. A hay shed provides convenient storage, while 8 RV hookups offer accommodation for guests or staff. Enjoy lush green pastures, mature trees, and the peaceful sound of the seasonal creek flowing through the property. The front 2 acres of the property are zoned commercial!! Benefit from low utility costs with a septic tank, and 2 private wells!!! There are 3 heat pump units, a water softner unit and reverse osmosis. The home includes a 3-car garage, and an additional storage shed with its own porch, perfect for hobbies or extra storage needs. This property is more than just a home; it's a complete equestrian paradise offering luxury, functionality, and breathtaking beauty. Don't miss the chance to make this exceptional estate your own.

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2500 Lupine Lane Wickenburg, AZ 85390

$1,490,000

4 Beds

3.5 Baths

4,205 SqFt

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MLS # 6768049

Property Type Single Family Residence

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6711 E Camelback Road Unit 21 Scottsdale, AZ 85251

$1,490,000

2 Beds

2 Baths

2,049 SqFt

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MLS # 6769046

Property Type Townhouse

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2946 N Lodgepole Road Overgaard, AZ 85933

$1,490,000

4 Beds

4 Baths

5,088 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6773690

Property Type Single Family Residence

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263 W Malibu Drive Chandler, AZ 85248

$1,490,000

5 Beds

4.5 Baths

5,735 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6681125

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

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3413 E Equestrian Trail Phoenix, AZ 85044

$1,490,000

6 Beds

4 Baths

5,769 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6765363

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

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$1,490,000

4 Beds

4 Baths

3,309 SqFt

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MLS # 6772722

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

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1004 E Tempe Drive Tempe, AZ 85281

$1,490,000

6 Beds

4.5 Baths

4,186 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6774897

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

Perfect opportunity for luxury living or investment property in the heart of Tempe. Where luxury meets convenience in this stunning 6-bedroom, 4.5-bathroom home boasts an impressive 4,186 square feet of living space with plenty of space to entertain, 2 master suites and 2 kitchens. Sold fully furnished and move-in ready. Step outside and be greeted by a private paradise. The meticulously landscaped outdoor space features a brand new sparkling pool, perfect for those scorching Arizona days or heat it up during the cold season. But why stop there? Ascend to the rooftop deck and take in breathtaking views of the surrounding area - it's the ideal spot for stargazing or entertaining friends. Location is key, and this home delivers. Just minutes away from ASU, Tempe Town Lake, and Scottsdale, you'll find endless opportunities for recreation. Currently run as a successful AirBnb, this is an investors dream. Could be rented as is or converted to 2 separate housing units for additional revenue as there are already separate entrances, seperate kitchens, laundry's, etc. so you would just need close in one small wall upstairs. Since it comes fully furnished it could be up and running in no time. Owner can provide proof of rental income upon request.

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23724 S 126th Street Chandler, AZ 85249

$1,490,000

4 Beds

3 Baths

3,084 SqFt

Status Active

MLS # 6783164

Property Type Single Family Residence

Price Type --

CUSTOM HOME IN A PRIVATE 1.1 ACRE LOT AT A PRIME CHANDLER LOCATION FOR SALE!!! . NO HOA !! Single level custom house over 3000 square feet. Home is filled with many custom details. High ceilings. A nice 4 bedroom and a den or a true 5 bedrooms. Gourmet kitchen with pot filler faucet, granite counter top, beautiful cabinetry, gas stove, built-in refrigerator and high-end appliances. Snail shower in master bedroom. 4 large car garages with a decorative pass through garage door on the opposite side. Lots of extra rooms for storages and boy's toys. A nice extended cover patio. Horse are allowed. Irrigated lot! Must See! Don't miss It!

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